“But, that’s just me.”
It’s an expression that often excuses irrational statements. If a person must qualify a statement by recognizing that it may very well be wrong, they quickly lose credibility.

What it says to others about me when I use such statements :
- I acknowledge that my statement is probably incorrect, but I choose to buy in to it anyway. ”Just because” is not a consideration that leaders weigh when making decisions.
- I am lazy. I won’t be bothered with the work necessary to uncover requisite facts, data, or other objective information before making my statements, judgments, or decisions.
- I don’t really care what others think or the quality of the input they may provide; there is no room for discussion, my mind won’t be changed.
- I believe that others should also buy into my conclusion based on my (very scientific) feelings – because, hey, it’s me after all – not because it’s well thought-out and carefully constructed on facts.
If you desire credibility, don’t ask others to buy into something “just because.” Don’t put your credibility on the line with a hasty and ill-informed expression.
Be thoughtful. Be intentional. Make statements after considering objective information, then follow up with more subjective but logical conclusions. Finally, ask for input. It demonstrates that you’re interested in arriving at the best conclusion based on all of the information. It’s what leaders do.
People buy into those who speak rationally and who eschew whimsical statements.
But, that’s just me.
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